Many people fall in love, get married and work hard at adding value to their relationship for the first year or two. Then the couples become used to being married and start taking each other for granted by not adding or neglecting their values. One or both couples may start looking for these values outside the marriage.
Marriage is very challenging in ways one cannot imagine. Marriage is a business and not all business is the same. There are different models adopted. A marriage is more like a Partnership than an LLC, a partnership whose purpose is the management of a shared life. Two companies merge to form a partnership. Forming mergers are to improve the profitability of the two companies involved. Profitability is a net gain. If one company takes over another, you do not have a merger, you have an acquisition. Acquisitions are not about the coming together of equals. Acquisitions are about one company absorbing another into itself while keeping the essence of its original identity, an identity to which the absorbed company stays subservient.
Certainly, many marriages use the acquisition model. And not that it cannot work, but because people, in general, tend to grow more independent over time, the acquisition model may become problematic as the subservient partner feels increasingly less inclined to remain so.
Every successful business creates the values that will sustain the business and make the business grow. In business, the value is what causes people to want to trade with you. Value is what makes someone decide to hand you their money because they are going to get something they want, something in which they find compelling value.
Value is not fixed or tangible; it rests on perceived benefit. Value is in the mind of the beholder. Innovators work hard to understand exactly what value means to their customers, so they can generate and provide it. Value is an emergent property of the supplier and the consumer; it cannot take place with only one or the other. You need to work hard to generate and give the needed values to your spouse. What your spouse values are not fixed or tangible. You can create new value; you can create more value, or you can create better value. The new value is the most difficult strategy. Creating more value is much easier because you are working with something you already have. Creating better value is also easier because it is an extension of what you are currently doing.
Are you adding value to your marriage? Do you even think about what you can do every day to keep the relationship growing? How does your spouse feel about you if they believe you are compromising rather than giving? If you are giving are you giving in the way your spouse needs you to give? Your purpose in a relationship is to give in the way your partner needs you to give, to give consistency and to add value to their life. If you focus on yourself, then you cannot give as they expected. If you are valuable to your spouse or partner, compromise will disappear and ‘giving’ will take over.
You create value for money either by saving or investing. Where you have money that does not have value, you become poor. Your marriage or relationship becomes poor if you do not add the necessary value. When you give your heart and truly mean it, then you give without expecting anything in return. When you add value because you believe in what you are adding then you do not expect anything in return. The reward for you is in adding the value. It is not your responsibility to ask for reward, that is down to others to give.
Success in anything, be it your career, your hobbies, your relationship, happens and grows when you add value and when those around you who matter see you adding value and want more of the value you bring to their lives. In a relationship, if you both do this for each other and you do this consistently then instead of compromising, you will both become a formidable team working to achieve a common goal thereby meeting each other’s needs. That way you can climb the mountain together in the morning and still be back for tea. The value you both share will bind you.
How you personally define marriage is the foundation of how you treat your marriage and how you commit to your marriage. Your expectations in the marriage will decide what will build or break the relationship. The success of a marriage is dependent upon whether each spouse chooses to value the other highly.
Your marriage is the most important relationship of your life. You must realise your spouse is the person who deserves most of your attention. You must treat your spouse like they are your hero, your king, or queen, and give them the benefit of your best attention. That obviously also implies that you must pay attention when your spouse talks to you. Often, we are guilty of “tuning out” when we get home. We spend all day concentrating at work, and when we get home we just want to relax. That often also result in the fact that we do not listen properly when our spouse talks to us.
Novelty is the quality of being new, original, and unusual. Adding value through novelty simply means kicking our relationship into high gear, with thoughtful experimentation and spontaneity. Finding out what your spouse’s preferences are in the bedroom and catering to those, is a great way to prove that we are placing our spouse’s needs first. Maintaining a surprise element in the sex department is electrifying and amazing. It is, however, unique to each couple and how this plays out will be contingent on things like sexual experience, personality preferences, a willingness to experiment and knowledge about sex. Keep religion and tradition out of this. Make the most of your life together.
The key to is to learn how to increase the value of your spouse. As we learn how to increase the value of our spouses, we increase our ability to deal with anger. One problem is that when people do not see enough value, they try to straighten that person out by using anger. What do you do when you see no value in your spouse? Where you see no value or little value, you must create it. You do not give up. You stay put and deal with the issue. There is no room for escape. You are in this for a lifetime.
Value is a key that opens many doors. Show your spouse, you appreciate him or her and you will add value to their life. When you predict their needs, it adds value. You must pay attention, so you can really know them. It is easy to add value when you understand the power and purpose of love in your relationship. There is no greater power than love! Love can heal the world. Love is pure and decent, innocent, and true. Love will last forever. Love is magical.
Adding Value to Your Marriage— Sex and Relationship. Featured
Written by Jefferson O Imgbi
529189 comments
-
Comment Link
Tuesday, 20 July 2021 15:43
posted by graypants Chrona Dish h LED Suspension Lamp
WOW just what I was searching for. Came here by searching for graypants Chrona Dish h LED
Suspension Lamp -
Comment Link
Tuesday, 20 July 2021 15:27
posted by JoshuaEsows
naltrexone alcoholism medication dose revia medscape lab monitoring for naltrexone
naltrexone oral medication guide naltrexone for autism is revia controlled -
Comment Link
Tuesday, 20 July 2021 15:04
posted by продвижение сайтов google
Почему бы не включить свой собственный товар в эти
подарочные руководства? -
Comment Link
Tuesday, 20 July 2021 14:55
posted by 17h dish pendant
This post is really a nice one it assists new web people, who are wishing for blogging.
-
Comment Link
Tuesday, 20 July 2021 14:31
posted by vietlott keno truc tiep
Tin Soi Kèo[url="https://questiontime.info/detail/danh-sach-bai-hat-tren-kenh-itv-151868.html"]california vol 20 midi (walaoke)[/url]Nếu là một trong những người đùa mới cá độ bóng đá quý khách có thể truy cập vào thethao88.com nhằm có những sự trợ giúp kể từ những thường xuyên gia nhằm mục đích phân tách và Dự kiến những kèo thơm và đặt cược để thành công. bongdaso.co chuyên nghiệp trang soccer số coi tỷ lệ kèo soccer – kết quả bóng đá – lịch tranh tài bóng đá – tỷ số đá bóng.
-
Comment Link
Tuesday, 20 July 2021 14:31
posted by naruto thuyết minh htv3
Giày Thể Thao, Năng Động Thể Thao Chính Thương Hiệu Peak Sport[url="https://chiefscreolecafe.com/detail/viet-nam-da-banh-mi-tap-11-111773.html"]tieng set trong mua tap 11[/url]Lần trước tiên ra đôi mắt thì giày Jordan 1 có màu sắc đỏ, Trắng và đen phối với nhau. Với upper mỏng nhẹ và đế bền rộng cùng cỗ đệm lấy trực tiếp kể từ Crazylight Boost năm 2016, trong giai đoạn tạm thời Rose 8 cũng cực kỳ đáng nhằm demo.
-
Comment Link
Tuesday, 20 July 2021 14:19
posted by minh ngoc bong da
Giầy Bóng Rổ Chi Phí Rẻ Bền đẹp Mắt, Chi Phí Sốc, Nên Chọn Mua Ở Đâu[url="https://murraystivoli.com/detail/fifa-2020-crack-igg-109206.html"]pes 2020 full crack[/url]Lần thứ nhất ra mắt thì giày Jordan 1 có color đỏ, white và đen phối với nhau. Với upper mỏng manh nhẹ nhõm và đế bền hơn cùng cỗ đệm lấy thẳng từ Crazylight Boost năm 2016, tạm thời Rose 8 cũng vô cùng xứng đáng để test.
-
Comment Link
Tuesday, 20 July 2021 14:02
posted by webcam sex live free
The singer had also argued that he can't meet with his lawyers in order to strategize
for the trial in July to which the judge responded that they can communicate via phone and email.
A judge in Chicago explained that the 53-year-old R&B singer
is still a flight risk among several other reasons for the decision according to legal documents obtained by TMZ on Tuesday.
The health risk to Mr. Kelly, because of his age and existing health issues,
especially considering the conditions at the MCC, necessitates
his release on bail,' the filing reads. This came weeks after
Kelly had cited the novel coronavirus in asking a federal judge to free him from a federal jail in Chicago
as a court filing by his lawyers saying scant precautions to stem the spread
of the virus behind bars put Kelly's life at risk.
Known as Witness J, the former choirboy came forward after another accuser died
in 2014 and claimed he too was abused by the cardinal.
Cardinal Pell spent his first night after 405 days in prison at the Carmelite Monastery in Melbourne, where a lone child's
tricycle was left overnight. When asked by a prison guard
how he felt about the 'miracle', Cardinal Pell
said there was no miracle, only 'justice'. -
Comment Link
Tuesday, 20 July 2021 13:43
posted by formation lithothérapie montpellier
Ce troisième module vous permettra d’approfondir votre
connaissance des propriétés des pierres en fonction de leur géométrie cristalline, de leur
couleur, de leur composant et de leur forme. -
Comment Link
Tuesday, 20 July 2021 13:36
posted by sex chat apps
Both are quite similar, but the Shield has a bit more of the metal accents
down the sides than the Air. The Defense Air is a heavy-duty, drop-resistant iPhone case.
The Defense Shield is a drop-resistant, heavy duty iPhone
case that is wireless charging compatible. The Defense Air comes in purple, black, but is currently sold out on Amazon. Its slightly rubbery
design means you won't need to worry about it sliding off tables or
out of your back pocket. Flip the card flap back and use it as a horizontal phone stand for
watching videos hands-free. The single-piece construction means it's easy to put on, and the tough polycarbonate body protects your phone from drops.
A single piece construction means its easy to swap
out cases depending on your mood. The former
Hear'Say singer had changed out of her earlier lacy jumpsuit
and instead opted for a sleek black version, which put her ample assets on display with its sexy plunging neckline.
Learning Italian language will put you in contact with several false friends,
a few of them also really embarrassing, too. Which live cam sites will waste your time.
It features premium aniline leather that patinas over time to a unique finish.